Wed, 26 August 2015
My guest today, on the Join Up Dots free podcast interview is a man who has worked tirelessly to achieve his dream in life
And as we know the dream is always hard to achieve, but sometimes it can be made so much harder by the people that you are surrounding yourself with.
Sometimes your path is hidden from you by the actions and words of others, and no matter how much you try to get going, they will place obstacles in your way.
Which is certainly true with todays guest, who after a terrible time passing through the education system, stumbled through over 30 jobs, looking for the thing that lights him up.
He knew he wanted to be in entertainment in some way through his whole life, but was always told that it could never happen.
He vividly remembers telling his mom that he wanted to be an actor and being told to “get real.”
He recalls being told by a school councillor that he should go to work at the local mill cause that was all he would ever amount to.
He was directed by not what he thought was possible, but what others were willing to believe.
He needed the support of others, who could help his dreams come true.
The kind of people that would allow the shoots of his dreams to start growing.
And he found those people, and their positive words started showing the path.
As he says “They were telling me I could do something bigger, that I was someone. They were true friends to me. I learned I could work for myself. They kept asking “what’s your dream?” I thought ‘well maybe I could make a movie if I had $1 million dollars.’ I had no clue how movies were made! I just wanted to make one. – Age 26 I started studying stand-up comedy thinking maybe this was a way to get a movie made.”
So has he made his dream come true, by delivering a movie to the world?
Has he found the path, that he knows is truly his?
Well let’s find out, as we bring onto the show to start joining up dots, with the one and only Mr. Doc Kennedy
Mon, 24 August 2015
Todays guest joining us on Join Up Dots is a man who is on a mission to change lives.
And it seems to me he is doing at the very spot where we need those lives to changed the most...the classroom.
Yes, he is a teacher who is focusing on a very simple principle but one that can make so much difference.
He believes that "A secure and trusting relationship between teacher and students is at the heart of positive discipline and a safe, productive classroom.
The positive effects of building teacher-student relationships impact all aspects of classroom life.
Students come to class and like to be there, they are more engaged in learning, they retain more of what they learn, and their creativity is unleashed. There are fewer behavior issues, lower dropout rates, and more harmony between class members."
And that period of our lives when we are going through the system to be pushed out into the real world, is the time when we should be inspired and encouraged to think big, be creative, and love our studies.
And now with a bestselling book "You've Gotta Connect: Building Relationships That Lead to Engaged Students, Productive Classrooms, and Higher Achievement" and more and more people taking an interest in his work it seems that this is a mission that we can all connect with at heart.
So when did he realise that its more about connecting and less about the content that he teaches that truly makes the difference?
And did he always have a desire to be a published author, or is he surprised to now see himself sitting proudly in the author section of "Amazon"?
Well lets find out as we bring onto the show to start joining up dots, with the one and only Mr James Sturtevant.
Sat, 22 August 2015
In todays bonus episode of Join Up Dots your host David Ralph, tackles the subject of "How do you start when there is too much choice"?
This has become the number one question that he recieves everyday....."I Know I Want To Do Something But I Don't Know Where To Start"
So David, details two amazingly simple and powerful exercises that you can all do, that will start your brain working on what you would like to achieve.
What is your perfect day built around?
And most importantly what steps you need to take to make them occur.
Direct download: BONUS_-__Getting_Started_Is_Hard_But_Not_Impossible.mp3
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Fri, 21 August 2015
My guest today, on the Join Up Dots free podcast interview is a man who like so many of my guests started on the path to his current success, due to a lack of satisfaction with his situation.
His whole life seems to me to have been built upon hustle, more than personal talents.
He started his adult hustle by commissioning into the US Navy, where he decided to go after the dream of being a nuclear engineer and struggled more than he thought possible, though still achieving his aim and grabbing the dream.
But there is a famous quote which states "Sometimes on the way to a dream you get lost and find a better one" and this certainly seems to be case here.
As whilst he was in the Navy, he realised that he wasn't going to see his family, was missing out on key events that he should have been experiencing, and just felt disconnected.
Now, as we will discuss on the show he has come full circle, and through developing online strategies, learning SEO and the wonderful world of Amazon, it looks like he has now found the true dream.
The dream that he didn't realise at the beginning was the right one for him.
So when he was in the Navy, did he enjoy much of it, or none of it?
And do the dots in his life join up like we see time and time again, or have they started much later in life?
Well lets find out as we bring onto the show to start joining up dots, with the one and only Dave Chesson
Wed, 19 August 2015
If you have listened to todays bonus episode you will have heard the host David Ralph talk about how he has changed his life by investing heavily in areas that he lacked.
Back on episode 400, he released a Bonus episode talking about how he was struggling to achieve the goal on a few things that he was working on.
He had the dream, but couldn't quite bring it to the finishing line.
So he had a decision to make.
Should he consider his actions to be a failure or should he look to improve the areas where he was lacking?
Well he spent $10,000 dollars on hiring coaches that he believed would share with him their areas of expertise, and whooshhhh!
He has joined up his dots and found the answers to the problems that he was dealing with.
And now he wants to share this with you all.
Therefore he has opened the doors on Podcasters Mastery and his group Mastermind Dream Starters Academy for one hundred people only and is now ready to rock.
So if you are interested in starting your own business, living the dream-life, and sacking your boss then there is no better time to join up with us.
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Wed, 19 August 2015
My interview today on the Join Up Dots free business podcast is a lovely lady who was kind enough to allow me to spend time with her on her own show Freedom Academies.....Turbo Charge Your Success.
Now during our conversation it was clear to me that this was a lady that I needed to get on Join Up Dots, as she has a story that shows all the characteristics that we find in the succesfull.
She has motivation.
She has hustle
And alongside her business partner Laura West, a few years ago found themselves homeless
The business they ran together was going south and they were exhausted.
They had no option at all but to move into two rooms in the office.
They had a problem that most business owners have at one time or another.
They were very good at that they did, but nobody knew about it.
Thye couldnt get their talents out into the world.
They started researching business growth systems, high performance ‘gurus’, wealth creation experts and all the investment strategies they could get there hands on.
Within twelve months they had a property portfolio worth over $2,000,000 that they had bought with others people’s money. More importantly the income from that property was double the income from their business that they had spent years building up!
They also applied all the business knowledge they had gained, transformed their business and went on to sell it!
They did all of this while being homeless, using the leisure centre across the road to shower and working 80 hours per week.
They were at such a rock bottom that they had the ability to create huge freedom of choice in their lives.
So was it just that the dots joined up, the time became right for them to flourish?
Or was it more to do with the undertanding that upskilling your knowledge is the way to go.
Well let's find out as we bring onto the show to start joining up dots, with the one and only property entrepreneur Kemi Egan
Mon, 17 August 2015
My guest on todays episode of the Join Up Dots free podcast interview, is a lady who wont let things in life get in the way of what she wants to achieve.
She is an amazing woman who overcame a near fatal car accident, chose to remove her left arm, became the US National Champion in the Paralympics, competed in the World Championships in New Zealand, and is now a brand-new mother.
That's not a bad start for any introduction.
But the key thing to this story, and is what we will delve into in great depth, is how most of the things may not occurred, if she hadn't realised that mentally she was holding herself back from what she could achieve.
As she says "I was in a car accident 17 years ago. So I had to always wear this sling and didn't have any motivation to move forward. My arm was paralyzed, a brachial plexus injury,"
She was intrigued and stimulated by here friends stories of running marathons, so set off to achieve the goal herself.
But the whole experience was one of pain and distress, as her paralyzed arm pulled down the entire left side of her body, causing knee pain and even whiplash.
It was like running with an anchor attached.
She began to realize that her paralyzed arm not only weighed her down physically, it was a metaphor for all that was holding her back from living life fully.
The anchor was weighing her down.
Keeping her in one position, and stopping her moving towards the future she craved.
So she realised that removing the arm, was going to be her saviour.
Cutting the ties with the past could very well be the best thing that she could do.
So she started considering amputation.
"I wasn't there before, I think, emotionally" she says "I knew it was going to be different. The outward appearance is very shocking (to people); it's different now. I used to be asked all the time, 'What happened to your arm?' when it was in a sling,"
Making the decision to undergo such a major surgery proved difficult, even though she knew intellectually it was the right choice.
Her solution? Set a series of athletic goals that would only be possible after the surgery.
Make the surgery the first step to achieving what she wants in life, and wow hasn't she done just that!
So, has the whole process been one that going back in time she would have done earlier?
And does she see that the power of the mind, truly outweighs the capabilities of the physical body?
Well lets find out, as we bring onto the show to start joining up dots with the one and only Tisa Cawthon
Fri, 14 August 2015
Today's guest joining us on the Join Up Dots podcast interview is Alison Pena, a lady who ever since she was 15 years old has been fascinated with how money and affluence has so much to do with our view of what’s possible.
In her own words she says "My dad was a 3rd generation Wall Street investment banker. My great-grandfather was one of White Weld & Co's founders. We lived in an apartment on Park Avenue. The family firm was sold to Merrill Lynch in 1978.
We regularly hosted influential financial and world leaders for dinner parties and social gatherings. I attended a well-heeled private all girls’ school, as you do when you’re part of that world.
But when I was 15, I began regularly leaving my white, wealthy, privileged world… and setting off on what can only be described of as “expeditions.”
Back then, it meant heading north of 96th Street (the northernmost boundary of my known world) into Harlem.
Until that point, my world was Park Avenue and bankers, Latin and piano lessons, nannies and au pairs.
And then I started making friends who showed me a whole other world.
I came from a world where anything was possible, because there was plenty of money. I could have any career. I could go to any school. I could shape my life into whatever I chose.
In contrast, my friends had different expectations. Different obligations. Different ideas about security. Different opportunities.
And a lot of that had to do with money.
This observation got me wondering… Why does money have so much to do with our view of what’s possible?
So I suppose the question is, does money have as much to do with confidence and mindset, or is it just a tool for making ideas happen?
Is it the key to attracting more money into our lives, not because of it directly, but because we can make things happen and go after it?
Well let’s bring onto the show to start joining up dots, as we discuss the words of Steve Jobs with the one and only Alison Pena
Wed, 12 August 2015
Todays guest joining us on the Join Up Dots free business podcast interview, is a guy that has an amazing and slightly strange route to where he is today.
If you were setting off on a path, to become an author, clinical psychologist, popular speaker and blogger for Huffington Post would you say to yourself "Right I need to travel to Nepal and India to learn from Buddhist Monks in the Himalayas, oh yeah, and I must seek guidance from Big Bird, and Bert and Ernie on Sesame Street."
Probably not, but our guest has, and now from his practice in downtown Manhattan, shares his proven strategies to take action.
He believes that we are all meant to create.
And he teaches people to discover their true selves, what they really need out of life – and how to make it happen.
He provides them with a practical plan to find the right path for them, face what’s holding them back, and break through the illusions that have been keeping them from living a life of possibilities.
And that word illusion is the key thing.
Why do we constantly create these illusions that make us think that things have to be in a certain way?
Why do we not think "Ok Sesame Street is the way to go" as every journey is full of experiences that can help us find our true path, if we only look hard enough.
Well lets find out as we bring on to the show to start joining up dots, with the one and only Dr Ben Michaelis.
Mon, 10 August 2015
Podcast 410: J Massey: A Career Built Around The Pursuit Of Happiness & Financial Education For Others
Todays guest joining us on Join Up Dots is one of those true Amerian success stories.
The ones that you see in films and think "Really, is that possible"
Well as you will hear in todays show, it is possible to go from almost rock-bottom to astonishing success within six years.
All done by mainly changing his mind-set and going for gold everyday of his life.
Through a series of life altering events, including the serious illness of his then pregnant wife, an accident that left him with a punctured lung that excluded him from being able to
work, and even losing and squatting in their foreclosed family home, our guest learned quickly that he had to change his mindset if he wanted to survive and thrive.
He immediately took action, immersing himself into intensive real estate investor training.
He hasn't looked back and has built a booming investing business, using very little of his own cash or credit.
He now owns an impressive portfolio that includes over 300 units of residential and commercial properties as well as private notes and mortgages.
And I guess he is a lot happier than he could possibly hope to be too?
So is it a simple as changing your mind-set?
Is it as simple as taking consistent action everyday?
Well lets find out as we bring onto the show to start joining up dots with the one and only Mr J Massey